None cringeworthy way of asking a lady to be your ladyfriend?

what makes you think she wouldn't want to see you again if you had coffee? and become friends, and then lovers to make the relationship work out good in love in all ways, always..and you don't ask her what is going on, your the man, you let her know what's going on with you, so she will know what is going on with her, and don't always expect a quick response, and you might get one, though, she will let you know where she is with this relationship, a lot easier and faster, if you take charge and be the one to tell her how you feel, a gentleman leads, and a lady is either with him on it or not..and a contingency plan for rejection for a man, would be to go back out on the field, and see what other woman you are interested in, for coffee, and friendship, and dating..she isn't the only lady in the world, there are a lot of other ladies in the world too...k?