I just need someone to hear how I feel... I am so confused..?

Ray you are a wuss - never say stuff like a can't believe a girl like you was ever interested in a guy like me. If you do then you are depreciating yourself. Rather, you have to make the girl feel that she is lucky to have you! Stop being so soppy - if you have to talk like this say in to a therapist! It turns women off big time as it makes you sound feminine. It is the equivalent of wearing a frilly blouse and skirt around her. Be more masculine with the next woman you meet - women want someone strong that they can lean on and that listens to what they have to say! Whatever problems you have if you act like they are nothing the woman sees you as stronger and more masculine. Being masculine is a turn on for them. All the best!