Sunday, November 13, 2011
I love him! What should be the next move?
It sounds like you are more interested in working it out than he is. When a guy is interested in a woman, he will do what it takes to get her attention and be with her. Keep that in mind. I know that you probably really care for this guy, but don't let him lead you on or get your hopes up if he doesn't show the same amount of initiation. Let him start calling you, let him tell you that he's sorry for cheating and breaking up with you. Don't be a fool, when a man cares for a woman, he will show her through actions not just words. I'm only saying this to you so that you know that guys can be manipulative, they could say one thing to you but really they may not be ready to commit. He said he is afraid of attachment, that to me says that he really isn't looking to be in a relationship. This may not be what you want to hear, but sometimes we fantasize and fool ourselves believing that other people care about us in the same manner that we care about them. You have to protect your heart. He has to show you more. He may not be ready to commit if he cheats with other women. Doesn't mean he may not care for you, but he can't care for you the right way and as much as he should unless he focused and has control of himself and his actions. I'm saying that so that you don't end up with a broken heart. I hope that he is serious about you and hope you will be happy, but be mature and don't let him take you for granted or for a fool. You can always be happy on your own until the right person comes along. When the right person comes along, you will know. God will send them to you. Maybe this is him, maybe not. So let him start to take some initiative and prove that he's also as interested as you are and take it from there. In the mean time, I know you will be thinking of him so look for ways to distract yourself. Hang out with friends, do some of your hobbies, or just take time to yourself and reflect on what you really want for yourself and your life. Don't let another person be the determination of whether or not you're happy. You have to make yourself happy first. God is good to those who are good to Him. So stay positive, do the right things and you will reap what you sow. Good Luck and God Bless you.
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